Hello all. I sure wish I could write more on here but time just doesn’t allow it with homeschooling and the other commitments. When I do sputter out a poem here and there, it feels like such an accomplishment. Then I think back to the summer and how I cranked out 3 poems in a week! The good ole days.
The keto diet is going well. The pounds aren’t coming off like they did for my husband but he has a higher metabolism than me. I have hypothyroidism and it keeps the weight on. But I feel better. Just plain better. So I’m sticking to it and reminding myself it matters what’s on the inside not what the mirrors and scales say. I don’t want a poor self-image to be my downfall in my girls’ eyes.
Homeschool is going very well. Still seeing progress. We’ve just finished the first 9 weeks. Their grades are looking good. I’m grading my 4th grader using progress reports but not my first grader. I will start grading her next year.
We have a trip to the pumpkin patch and hayride in the works for the end of the month. We have a small trip to paint pottery coming up friday. Looking forward to that.
God has been showing me about gossip. The newest thought that has helped me is that if you’re giving your opinion about someone else and their mistakes…well then it’s probably gossip. If you’re telling their business that they wouldn’t want you telling…then it’s definitely gossip. Lastly, if you saying anything about them that you wouldn’t say to their face…it’s gossip. It’s something I repent daily for.
Question to any of you daring readers….is it gossip when it’s family? So many times you ask how is Susie, did she get custody of her kids? Or how’s John doing after his drinking problem? They answer and give you the whole earful about their family member’s recent bouts. Not batting an eyelash while pouring out the juicy details. But somehow it seems people think it’s ok, because well, they’re family and they love them. They’re not judging them. I’d love to hear your opinions and scriptures…









Don’t forget to leave your comments on gossip. I’d love to hear your takes on it and how you deal with it. Or even how do you get out of a conversation when someone is spilling a good tidbit of gossip. What do you say to get out of there?
When I see pictures of food, I wish people would send some to me lol
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Food is beautiful to take photos of. Sorry if it causes cravings. My husband watches chopped the cooking show and I immediately get hungry when it’s on!
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Same🤣
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thank you nice pics of this young lady.
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Thank you!
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Loved your pictures and those sweet ones😇😇
Gosh, idk I think that’s a hard one. Girl, I have the Jerry Springer people in my family and sometimes I just have to tell a friend abt what’s going on or I’ll lose my ever lovin’ mind lol🤣🙈 I guess I would say what’s at the heart of what and why you are sharing…..that can make it gossip or not.
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Loved the food!! It’s cool also to hear how your girls are going with homeschool.
As for the gossip question with family (or anyone else really), I think it makes a difference whether or not the person you’re talking to knows the person you’re talking about. And sometimes a person might just need to get things off their chest by sharing (anonymously) what’s going on.
That said, I think it could be a line crossing conversation when/if we’re acting as judge and jury with another person and their issues. Or when we speak negatively about the person themself. I’ll admit I’ve been guilty of this myself. Whether or not this would be considered gossip or something else, I don’t know. But, I do think these things are very displeasing to God and therefore should be avoided.
God bless!
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Thank you so much for commenting and for reading!
Displeasing to God is definitely for sure. I will keep these words close.
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Wow! I love the creative works by your daughters and the food! Yummy!
As for gossip, It’s about the intention. Why are you exactly talking about someone? Is it with a malicious intention? If not, then it is not considered gossip. Again, it is about the intentions of the heart. I agree with nikhop320
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Thank you for your comment and for reading! I appreciate it
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I have so much respect for you as a homeschooling parent.
I think there is a huge difference between passing along information and gossip. As others have said intent plays a big role I it.
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Hi Amy, my goodness, that food looked delicious! My wife and I raised five children and I know first hand how much work it takes, but all those little “extra” things that you do are worth it. I can see that you are an excellent mother!
Gossip – that is a hard one and so easy to fall into, even more so with family members. I’m thinking the general rule focuses on love. If you love someone then you don’t repeat what you yourself wouldn’t like to be talked about by others. Do unto others as you would have them do unto you. This is hard to do because if you are like me, our humanistic side seems to naturally gravitate to doing this because it appears to build us up at the expense of others. Only problem being “at the expense of others” means tearing them down. I try not to ask questions about things that I already have a pretty good idea aren’t going well or if possible, try to frame the question with a positive outcome. Another option is to keep my lips firmly pressed together when a negative word is forthcoming. It’s hard, really hard. We almost do it without thinking. I’ve also found that if you’re praying for someone who is going through a rough time we have a tendency to see them in a more positive light. It’s pretty hard to pray for someone and shoot them down at the same time. Bottom line to remember: if we need grace, so do others. Hope this helps. God’s grace, peace and blessings on you and yours. – Bruce
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This is beautiful. Thanks Bruce. I will probably read this a few more times in the next days as I want to get it down in my heart. I think you’ve answered the way we all should answer the question
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Keto seems hard… my wife tried it and it seemed like it took a while for the weight to come off. But once it started it really seemed to work well… I hope the best for ya!
That pizza looks awesome!!!
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The food looks great! How did the almond mug bread taste? Was it good?
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Yes. And I’ve added sweetener and cinnamon here and there. It has the consistency of an English muffin if you slice and toast it
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Cool! I think I’ll try it.
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Here’s recipe…1/4 cup almond flour, 1 egg, 2 tsp butter, 1/2 teaspoon of baking powder (not baking soda like I put in post) microwave 90 seconds and it comes out.like a tube
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How big a mug (i.e. ounces), and how many watts is your microwave?
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I have a big microwave not sure how many watts. Standard coffee mug 10 oz
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Ok, thanks!
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I love how you’re making homeschooling and keto work with your family. And it drive me crazy that weight drops so quickly off of men. 😂 And your pictures of your girls are always darling.
I agree with what most are saying about gossip, and I like the prayer aspect that Bruce brought up. As the apostle Paul says: Speak the truth in love, and All things are lawful, but not all things are expedient. Just because something is true, we don’t have to tell others. But, always, always love. God gives us His Holy Spirit. When He taps us on the shoulder, that’s for us to pay attention to.
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Amen to that! Just because it’s true doesnt mean we have to tell others…! Thanks for reading Kathy
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Yes, gossip can be subtle. In a book that is now out of print, “Games Christians Play,” there’s a chapter on “how to keep up with the latest without resorting to idle gossip.” One of the “games” was called “Let’s all pray for poor Mrs. Jensen.” You present the gossip as a “prayer request” as you tell the rest of the church all the juicy details. (>ouch!<)
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Yes I’ve been a witness to that
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Thanks for the family and health update, Amy. I do low-carb with intermittent fasting, and that combination has helped me slowly drop weight.
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You’re doing a fabulous job my sister. I see someone with a heart of goals, but yours is a heart of gold! I’m not not to talk about what others are going through. For me, I believe gossip is a question of content. If it comes from a place of true concern, then it’s just a heart talking about a way they can help! God bless!
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God bless thanks Warren. I’ll keep that close to my heart as well. What’s the intent of my heart when I speak about others.
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God bless!!
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Hello! I don’t have a comment on gossip… it’s a good question, though. I simply want to encourage you in your efforts to be more healthy! And, as a mom of girls as well, want to send you a high five 🤚🏽for your awareness of keeping a positive self-image! Kids will see the real us… they know we try hard. Stay positive and encouraging, friend! You can do this 🙂 Blessings
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Thanks so much! I look forward to following your blog!
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That food looks so delicious! 😋 The kids looked like they had fun also. I think we all need that “one” person we can vent to, who will NOT repeat what we vent to another soul, except Jesus. It’s those who have sandpaper people in their families and surrounding their lives who need this the most. An outlet. Jesus should always be the number 1 we go to in prayer, but like Nicole said about having a Jerry Springer family, if we don’t get things out, we can lose our peace and sanity! It’s not good for our mental health to hold things in. But I have to say that there have been times that even God let me know in prayer not to repeat a certain matter to anyone else but Him. In those kinds of times, we need to listen to Him. Take it directly to Him in prayer and leave it there. I have also told just one person something in confidence that I didn’t tell anyone else and didn’t want anyone else knowing and that person told someone else, a prayer warrior, so they could “pray” about it. I didn’t like it much, because if I had felt the need for that other person to pray about it, I could have just went directly to them and asked them to pray, without involving the first person. I feel there is a fine line in doing things like this and it not being considered gossip. I have also been in a group setting where a person was being degraded “maliciously” with the intent of ruining their reputation. I had to get up one time from one of these pow-wows and go to the bathroom. I didn’t return back to the group. One of the people in the kitchen afterwards told me they had wondered where I had went. Sometimes I upset myself though. Being honest here—There are times I wish I could have the courage to stand up for “good” people who don’t deserve their name being dragged into the mud. We all are human. I guess I can see someone who is a “terrible” person being done this way, but it hurts my heart to see someone who is “innocent” and doing the best they can in their situation, always being kind to others, loving and humble, being torn down like that. A good rule to think about is, how would we react if what we say gets back to that person. It comes down to using love, wisdom and kindness. And lots of prayer! 🙂
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A big ole fat amen over here. I guess you said it all
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Good thoughts on the subject of gossip. Big thing for me is just to listen to the Holy Spirit.
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Lovely pictures!
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Thank you!
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You’re welcome 😇
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I was reading something the other day that said that the Keto diet works better for men than for women. I wonder why that is? A friend of mine has been on it with her husband and he’s losing weight while she isn’t. I think that’s so weird!
Your food looks so good!! I love the little butterfly snack bags! How cute!
Gossip – I’m not sure how I feel about it because even if it’s family it’s still gossip, right? But then again, where is the line when it comes to gossip and just telling the facts about another person and wondering how their lives are going? Gossip is such a tricky subject sometimes.
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Yep tricky for sure! I wonder if it’s in the way you feel when you walk away. Like the heart knows what it should be saying
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I really like Abigail’s snack baggie idea! Super cute!
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I want to try that bread recipe! I’ve been considering keto and I sort of do it but I don’t get enough protein or good fat during the day so I often feel sick.
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I think I’m getting more protein and not enough fat. Cheese cheese cheese all day long! The recipe is on the comments if you didnt already see it. Try a half packet of sweetener and cinnamon in it too
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I’ll check it out. That is the hard thing for me – cheese and dairy is in so much of it and I have issues with dairy so that much cheese would leave me with horrid stomach issues!
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Yep cheese stops my bowels. I’ve been taking daily fiber 100% psyllium husk. Has 2 carbs in it. Helps alot.
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