Peaceful Retrospective Thinking

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Do you think it’s possible? Are you able to sit back and think on the past and have peace? We should, but it’s not an easy thing to do. How many times have you started on a thought process like this…”I can’t believe she said that to me. Right to my face like that. Doesn’t she know any better. I should’ve walked away. I should have slammed the door on her. Oh, Lord help me to stop thinking about her like this. I’m sorry Lord, forgive me.” Am I the only one who has these conversations in my mind? Here you are going about your day gardening or dishes (it’s always dishes for me!) When you realize you have been at this thinking for a good 5 minutes. Here’s the kicker, this “thing” that you are going on about happened 10 or more years ago!

Retrospective, today’s Daily Prompt. Retrospective: something pertaining to the past.

Is the past always so daunting, filled with regret for everyone? I say no. Are there people out there that can do the dishes and go back 10 or 20 yrs. and think on something pleasant? Sure! And they are wonderful people to be around.

Reminisce. Like when old friends get together and talk about the good old times. 

But for those who come from traumatic backgrounds and negative environments, like myself, reminiscing is a whole different ballpark. Families that sit together and talk about aunt so and so and how she did this or said that, many years ago at the picnic. Get where I’m going with this? Or families that look back when grandma died and how Uncle Jack took everything, and everyone else got slighted. It can create a cycle of judgemental, disruptive thinking, passing on to our children.

How then can we, who have come from this, go beyond it? I heard it said that we each have a pond of peace in our souls. We want to keep the surface of our ponds calm to the point it looks like glass. Each time someone hurts or offends you, you’re given a stone. You have two choices. You can give that stone to Jesus or you can throw it in your pond. What happens when you throw a stone into a pond? Ripples, that go to one side and back. It keeps going back and forth and it takes much time for that surface to calm to glass again. The preacher went on to say, everytime you think about that offense, you’re throwing another stone into your pond. And it’s as if they have hurt you all over again! Profound thought, isn’t it? How’s your peace pond today?

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P.S. This is my Friday post being put out Thursday for the Daily Prompt Challenge for the word Retrospective. Pray for my 8 yr old daughter competing in a bible quiz tournament tomorrow. They have a chance at nationals!

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Amy Blount

I'm a stay at home wife and mother of 3. My oldest is 23 who lives at home because she is a delight and is autistic. My other 2 are in elementary school. They are all 3 girls. Raising an autistic daughter isn't the same as raising ones without. So it's like starting anew with some things. I will partly write about this. I have overcome many addictions with the only Savior Jesus for 8yrs. I will also write partly on addiction and how I see it and overcame it. I believe you will find my musings encouraging, helpful and sometimes a bit funny since I tend to be someone who holds nothing back. The purpose of my blog at first was to use it as an outlet, a way to get things out of mind and onto paper. But it has turned into a place I can go to encourage others with a short story, poem or to simply talk and try to relate. I just started blogging a month ago (April 2018) I wish I would've done it sooner! I promise to never try to sell you anything but Jesus' love. Be patient as this site may take on a few changes as I try to find my place in it and where I want it to go. I have many ideas swirling...stick around! Thanks for reading.

10 thoughts on “Peaceful Retrospective Thinking”

  1. Toxicity is so good at ruining what is truly good. I love the idea of a peace pond!!

    That’s so awesome she is a Bible quizzer! I was from 7-12, and though I personally did not really enjoy it then, I am very thankful for it now. Prayers for her ❤

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            1. This is my first experience with bible quizzing. I didn’t grow up in the church. And all I thought was, how cruel to make these poor babies remember all these verses. My husband explained how their minds are so clear compared to ours full of the past and clutter and stuff. I’m amazed at these mockingbird kids quoting away! I’ll put a little post up tomorrow of her achievements. It’s good getting to know you t.r.!

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